Mission and Ministry Book Club
This month's Book Club choice
When Parenting Isn’t Perfect by Jim Daly
Perfection is the enemy of parenting. Jim Daly sees and hears from mothers and fathers trying hard to pursue perfection. They listen to the best experts and read all the right books. When someone gives them a “World’s Best Mom” or “No. 1 Dad” coffee mug, they want it to be true. And they want their children to pursue perfection, too.
It’s admirable for parents to be the very best moms and dads they can be for their children. But sometimes in so doing, they leave grace behind–both for themselves and their children. Jim believes that our quest for perfection, a quest that he believes is particularly strong among Christians, runs counter to God’s own boundless gift of grace. We can become Pharisaical parents, quoting endless rules and holding everyone to impossible standards. But God doesn’t want us, and our kids don’t need us, to be perfect. As parents, we’re called to simply do our best. And when we fail–which we will–we’re called to try again tomorrow.
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Jim Daly is a husband, father, author and broadcaster. He is the president of Focus on the Family and host of its daily radio broadcast which is heard by more than 5.6 million listeners a week and has been honored as Program of the Year by the National Religious Broadcasters.